Jacquelyn Kaye

Jacquelyn Kaye

My sister Jacquelyn (Jaci) Kaye Byrd was born in 1951 in Columbia, Tennessee. Her life was cut short in 1993 at the very young age of 42.  Still – she was very accomplished – oh -not in terms of financial or position or ways that most define accomplished – but in terms of the important stuff — like who she loved & how she loved.  Her success was seen in the way that she lived her life – understanding & applying the most important rules of living – like being happy, seeing the good in others, giving, doing it her way, & loving unconditionally.

She was always happy. Whether the sun was shining or it was raining — whether cold or hot— she thought it was a beautiful day. She knew how to smile & share a smile- every day.

She saw the best in others. She wasn’t judgemental, & honestly— I think she just refused to think about or entertain any bad thoughts. She didn’t look for the bad, she cared about seeing the good.

She was giving. If she only had a dime and you needed it — it was yours.  She wasn’t worried about herself or how she would get by tomorrow. She was only concerned with you — & what – small or large thing – she could do/give to help.

Jaci believed in enjoying life and not being harnessed by the rules or opinions of others.  She was a bit of a rebel and sometimes just made things up as she went. She enjoyed living.

My sister loved everyone- unconditionally. — & no – it wasn’t because she lived a charmed life — or because she never failed at love — or because there were not times of brokenness in her own life — oh to the contrary— but she never focused on the bad or difficult times & she rarely talked about it.

I miss you sis 💕- I miss your gentle heart, your infectious joy, & your passion for living.